I am 39, divorced, I have two kids (son 6, daughter 5) but they live with my ex. wife in Bangladesh. I am a very simple person, if you do not go against any established rule of islam, you should not have any friction with me. I am particularly looking for a religious and a soft person (Taqwa should automatically make one soft and humble). I would prefer my wife to stay home & not pursue any tough career which could impact the family life. I believe islam recommends women to stay home, the responsibility of earning is on the man. I have experienced living with a very career oriented person. In my understanding this family model, where both Husband and wife work, is very flawed and not peaceful and children are badly neglected. I currently live in Berlin and my wife will also have to relocate here. I do not wish to stay here forever because raising righteous kids is not possible in the land of the Kuffar so I plan to leave before my kids are grown. I cannot leave right away because of career reasons. I do not believe in family planning & would like to have many kids in shaa Allah. Simple wedding in masjid.